Heather Cariou

Heather Cariou


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Heather Cariou was born, raised and educated in Ontario, Canada. As a child, she dreamed of becoming both a writer and a ballerina. When she learned the fates of the Bronte sisters, Emily Dickinson and Sylvia Plath, she chose ballet over writing, and trained for a time at the National Ballet School of Canada. She fantasized that fans would someday drink champagne from her toe shoes, a la Anna Pavlova. Seeing Elaine Stritch as “Mame” in 1969 changed all that, and she decided to become an actress. But ultimately writing drew her back.

Today, she is a founding member of the Galaxy Writers Workshop in New Jersey, and sits on the Board of the International Women’s Writing Guild, to whom she owes her life as a writer. Ms. Cariou is proud to count the following authors among her mentors: Ted Conover, D.M. Thomas, Sally Bingham, June Gould and Eunice Scarfe.

Heather emigrated from Canada to New York City in 1983, and now lives on the Hudson River in New Jersey with her husband, stage and screen actor, Len Cariou. She is currently co-producing the feature film of “Sixtyfive Roses” with Eva Longoria and UnbeliEVAble Productions. Besides her memoir, “Sixtyfive Roses” she is working on a novel.

Sixtyfive Roses: A Sister’s Memoir

Heather Summerhayes Cariou
McArthur & Company (2008)
ISBN 9781552786789                
Reviewed by Olivera Baumgartner-Jackson for Reader Views (9/08)

Synopsis: Six year old Heather Summerhayes promised to die with her sister Pam, who at the age of four was given only months to live when diagnosed with Cystic Fibrosis. Yet through the next remarkable 22 years of battle against her illness, Pam taught Heather how to live. Sixtyfive Roses is the way Pam pronounced the disease that altered the lives of her siblings and parents, who in turn helped alter the community s response to the disease by founding the Canadian Cystic Fibrosis Foundation. With the help of the Foundation, research, and new treatments, the fight to save Pam lasted for years, ending with her death at the age of 26. Heather and her family had to learn to survive the tragedy of her sister's illness, and her loss.

This memoir, which reads more like a novel, offers an unsparing eyewitness account of the pain, hope and valor of a family in crisis as it falls apart and pulls itself together again and again, only to emerge stronger and more loving. At the heart of the story is the relationship between the two sisters. As they journey through childhood, adolescence and young adulthood, each struggles for autonomy, yet helps the other learn where to find joy and meaning in a world of pain and uncertainty.

This is not just a story about a disease. SIXTYFIVE ROSES is about fighting for your life and never giving up. It s about loving fearlessly and the choices we make in the name of love. It s about the kind of faith, fortitude and forgiveness we tell ourselves we don t possess, but which is present in all of us. Ultimately, SIXTYFIVE ROSES illuminates what we must all come to understand about the nature of life and death.

#1 Reader comment: "I couldn't put it down."

There is no happy ending. But there is the day. The sun, the rain. The chance to say I love you. The willingness to forgive. The courage to remember. The opportunity to be kind. The ability to laugh and to be generous. The fact that we can choose our joy in each moment, no matter what. This, in itself, is the miracle.

McArthur & Company publishers will donate 5% of proceeds from book sales to the Canadian Cystic Fibrosis Foundation.